Thomas Durfee

Thomas Durfee

Senior Vice President, Private Banking Relationship Manager


Tom is a private banking relationship manager and team leader with the St. Louis private banking group for Commerce Trust. As a member of the private client team and an experienced, tenured private banker, he and his dedicated client support staff are responsible for ensuring each client’s experience with Commerce Trust exceeds expectations.

His specific responsibilities include management of our clients’ day-to-day banking, cash management, and credit needs while also helping them navigate the wide array of our financial services to find the solutions that best fit their needs. Prior to joining Commerce, Tom was a senior vice president at two well-known wealth management companies.

Tom holds a Bachelor of Science degree in business administration from University of Missouri. He is a member of the St. Louis Economic Council and volunteers for Junior Achievement and Habitat for Humanity. Tom enjoys reading, traveling, and exercising. He and his wife also enjoy camping and are planning to revisit many of the national parks they took their family to over the years.